Should You Tell Your Fiancé That You Don't Love Your Engagement Ring?

This is not often talked about but a few of you out there might have found yourself in a situation where you love your man but hate the ring and you really don’t want to hurt your fiancé ‘s emotions by telling him. Mostly, you don’t get a chance to see your ring before the engagement ceremony which means you have to go with the ring whether you like it or not. You definitely don’t want to spoil your day by explicitly expressing your dislike right at that moment. We know this can be difficult but there are many different ways to handle this situation without being impolite. Let’s go through some tips that you can follow to convey your opinion:

You can share your opinion on the ring after your engagement ceremony with your fiancé. You should explain your feelings about the ring in a way that he doesn’t get upset. Keep this in your mind, having a good and open conversation is a first step towards building a stronger relationship.

We know that everything related to a wedding can be overwhelming but don’t jump to any conclusion instantly that your partner does not know about your liking or disliking. You also need some time to wear the ring, you might start liking it after a couple of days, or it may suit your finger well. There can be a change of heart when you realize the affection that the groom and his family put in while buying the ring. In the end, you should know that the ring is not a reason that you are going to marry in the first place.

This is also the best option to follow. You can always modify your engagement ring if you don’t like it. if your engagement ring is too simple, you can add more stones to it or maybe you want to remove some to make it look more modest. Do discuss it with your fiancé before going for this option.

After your wedding ceremonies, you can always exchange your ring with the new one. Maybe you like the centre-stone but not the band and that can always replace it with some other stone. Also, don’t forget to discuss it with your partner about it because you obviously don’t want him to feel bad. The whole conversation should go smoothly to prevent yourself or your partner from any har feelings.

These tips will surely help you through without being impolite to your partner.